Hello Pairents…..
Finally, managed to get some time to pen down my thoughts. Hope all you new pairents and would be pairents are doing fine, and have been as much busy as me. 🙂 Life is indeed a roller coster ride once you enter Pairenthood, and that’s the best part about it. The ups and downs make the journey a memorable one and worth talking about to your children once they grow up. But let me share something with you today from my experience while bringing up my boys. They love to be spoken to:) . Age is just a number.
Your baby can feel you strongly and your vibes work beautifully well for them. Your mere presence makes them feel so secured, be it a Mother or a Father. Your baby understands your emotions very well. This bond began the day you decided to bring him/ her into the world. Talking to your baby is a great way to express and let your emotions out. Your baby will enjoy and relate to. Though, the little one will not have a clear vision and a fully developed hearing ability, he/she will still FEEL what the pairents are feeling. This is something I followed with all my heart, talking to my babies, sharing how my day was, passing positive vibes…. and I have seen it work wonderfully well. I have seen how my elder one would reciprocate beautifully trying to make sense of everything I spoke. I have seen a sense of security setting in slightly early as he was aware of my every move.
I have learnt it with my experience and hence aggressively following it for my second one too. Talk and talk and talk, don’t think whether the little one understands or no, for he/she will, one fine day. But for that day, start the engagement today. Build a strong base and foundation for your little one. Reason it with them when they grow to an age, when they are able to relate to it. Talk beautiful and positive….:)
With the kids, born are the pairents, hence you are the best partners and are in true sense made for each other. Treasure this bond with as much positivity as possible for a beautiful tomorrow.
Cheers Pairents!
Yes Swati. Very true.
I have seen my Mother-in-Law talking constantly with my both daughter’s from the day they left Maternity Home.
Hahahaha… Totally baba.. Learnt so much from you, aai, ajis and ajoba and my in laws…
Ths is sooo true Swati…my little boy is just 2n half month whn I see nd feel so much positivity in him whn I tlk to him. I see his eyes follow me whereevr I go nd I see a lot of satisfaction in his eyes every time hez in my arms. Its the most beautiful feeling ever.
Such a beautiful feeling right.. You are doing a great job… Keep it up